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Help, my name's Lolita
By Brendan O'Neill
Lolita means perversion and controversy to many
Woolworths got into trouble for calling something Lolita, but what's it like to be lumbered with a name with troubling undertones?
What's in a name? Well, quite a lot actually, if your name is Lolita.
This is no longer simply a female given name of Spanish origin, a diminutive form of the more popular, better-established name Dolores [Spanish for "suffering"].
Thanks to Vladimir Nabokov's still notorious novel "Lolita", first published in 1955, and the two movies based on his book - Stanley Kubrick's classic of 1962 and Adrian Lyne's updated version in 1997 - the name Lolita has become synonymous with a sexualised view of young girls.
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Nabokov's novel tells the story of Humbert Humbert, a literature scholar who becomes obsessed with 12-year-old Dolores Haze after seeing her sunbathing in her garden.
We were reminded of the power of the L-name during the "Lolita bed scandal" at the end of last month.
It was discovered that the Woolworths website was selling a bed called the Lolita Midsleeper Combi aimed at girls aged six and over. After complaints, the Lolita bed was duly banished.
But how do women named Lolita cope in a society where their name is laden with such potential offence it cannot be attached to items of furniture?
Lolita Jones is a 55-year-old health and beauty therapist in Hunstanton, Norfolk. "People should not reduce the name 'Lolita' to one simple meaning", she says. "It's a real name, and it's a beautiful name."
Latvian popularity
When she was younger, other teens sometimes mocked her. Ms Jones dealt with it by joking: "Oh yes, that book was written about me."
"But mostly they just called me 'Lolly Eater'", she recalls.
Being named Lolita became sporadically problematic in the world of work. Working for British Telecom in London in the 1970s, her colleagues preferred Lola, which stuck.
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Ms Jones' parents were from Latvia, where Lolita is a popular girls' name. There is a Latvian Name Day for Lolita - 30 May - and Ms Jones still receives cards from her Latvian relatives on that day.
The shifting fortunes of the name Lolita can be seen in its declining popularity. According to the US Social Security Administration (SSA), the popularity of Lolita peaked in the US in 1963, when it was the 467th most popular name for newborn girls. It dropped after that, and has not made an appearance in the SSA's top 1,000 names since 1973.
Lolita Mackey is 85 and lives in Belper. She says that in her early life, people told her she had a "beautiful name". But by the 1970s and 1980s, "people raised their eyebrows when I said my name". She thinks things are changing back again, though.
Scandal factor
And Lolitas are not the only ones who have name troubles.
"Names come in and out of favour", says Pamela Redmond Satran, a naming expert and author of eight books on baby names, including The Brilliant Book of Baby Names and Cool Names for Babies.
"Monica is a good example in the US. The name had been inching up and was at number 79 in 1997. The Monica character in Friends helped make it popular. But in 1998, after the Monica Lewinsky scandal broke, the name slipped to 105 and went down even further the next year, never to recover.
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